Thursday, February 4, 2010

Revisiting a Poem

Taylor @ 4 years old

I know just about everyone has read this at one time or another. I just felt the need to share it again.

Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures and a couple by habit. This year, nearly one hundred thousand women will become mothers of special needs children. Did you ever wonder how these mothers of special needs children are chosen?

Somehow visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.

"Armstrong, Beth: son, patron saint, Matthew. Forest, Marjorie: Daughter, patron saint, Cecilia. "Rutledge, Carrie: twins, patron saint.....give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."

Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles. "Give her a profoundly developmentally disabled child." The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."

"Exactly," says God. "Could I give a child with a disability to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."

"But has she patience?" asks the angel.

"I don't want her to have too much patience, or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wears off, she'll handle it."

"But Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."

God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."

The angel gasps. "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"

God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a spoken word. She will never consider a step ordinary. When her child says 'Mommy" for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her blind child, she will see if as few people ever see my creations.

"I will permit her to see clearly the things I see - ignorance, cruelty, prejudice - and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life, because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."

And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, pen poised in midair.

God smiles, "A mirror will suffice."


5 comments:

The Silva's said...

Dawn that is a beautiful poem!!

How are you and Taylor doing?

barefootRhys said...

i needed this today. thank you

kathychurch111 said...

WOW!!! What a great, poem; it made me appreciate my son Stevie even more!!

hugs,
kathleen

Trudy said...

Hey Dawn, Hope thing are going good for you and Tay. Thinking of you. Trudy

Rhi Rhi's mom said...

My friend, I have never read this poem. Thank you as it sure is a dose of honesty. And a beautiful insight to an often times cruel world.